The Angel and The DeVil

Yu, can be adorable and thoughtful like an angel. He says the most adorable things and says "OK" to everything u ask him to do and do just what you tell him to do. 

At the same time, he can be a devil and that is when we really want to pack him into a box and send him home. You tell him to do 1, silence. You ask him if he hears what you say. Silence. You get mad at him and tell him to do it RIGHT NOW and he refuses and talks back and bad. 

Parents. I salute u... for having to deal with this every day.  

That day we went to Kuching Festival together to pull him out of his iPad, handphone, games addiction.  At first, he said he wanted to play some games to win a gift. After going round the games corner twice, he did some analysis and said, nah, the games are scams. Even if he wins, the value of the prize doesn't match the money he pays 😅 He is such a calculative careful boy.

We went to the AC area to see gifts and merchandizes. Yu is quite good at lego assembling and we saw shops selling many types of cartoon legos. The smallest set is only RM4.99 each.  According to Yu, this is cheap so we decided to each get one. Yu promised that he would assemble for us before his vacation ends. So, Yu bought a Lufi, Jane bought a Minnie Mouse and I bought a Tigger. Jane also bought a completed Pooh Bear which the cashier displayed at her counter for RM4.99. 

Of course, it was through a lot of pushing and 'bribing" that he finally completed his Rufi and my Tigger. Poor Jane, her minnie mouse is still in "pieces". HA! Jane paid RM4.99 for a completed pooh bear is definitely more value for money than getting Yu to assemble for us 😂

Tigger and cactus done by Yu

I was hoping that I could have one set of Pooh & Friends Lego one day. I wonder if that hope would ever come true. 

Someday, May be someday...

童言童語

侄子要進手術室前，姊姊打了個電話來說，幫侄子祈禱，希望一切順利~

我也跟侄子說說話。問他會怕嗎，他說會~ 好心疼呀

我也試著安慰他，給他壯壯膽

我：優，姨姨會跟菩薩說，你要動手術了，請他們去保護你

優：好~

我：你記得是哪位菩薩嗎？你上次有去廟裡拜拜的

優：南無地藏王菩薩和觀世音菩薩~

我：你好厲害~ 你等下也念念他們的名字，跟他們說等下可不可以去你身邊保護你

優： 好~ 

很庆幸，一切順順利利

之前我們去青山拜拜，優跟我借了5塊。我問他要做什麼。他說他要 make a wish。 他說他想要一個妹妹 😂😂😂 我說你應該去問問你爸爸媽媽可不可以才是 哈哈 

童言童語，太可愛了

後來我借錢給他添香油錢，他說他要『捐』給南無地藏王菩薩和觀世音菩薩。我問他，怎麼兩位菩薩而已？他說，因為我只認識他們兩位 😂😂😂 

話說因為媽媽的車上播放的佛樂就是南無地藏王菩薩和南無觀世音菩薩~  童言童語，太可愛了

獨處

最近行動管制令放鬆了。有點不太習慣人聲，車聲，隔壁建築開工聲等其它雜聲~

這55天，生活步調慢了但沒有不好。很多人抱怨在家生菇發霉了，我倒覺得很享受 哈哈哈

我一直覺得，我是一個很孤僻 （其實應該是很酷才是 哈哈哈）的人，我可以很长时间獨處，可以一個人做事，一個人逛街等....

自從我過著常常在外面到處辦事情的日子後，我每次都是走到那裡，餓了就坐下來吃個東西。每次我上班的朋友們找我吃午飯時，我不是剛好吃著飯就是吃飽了。我有位朋友，她是個很多朋友的人，也很愛找一堆朋友一起吃飯做事情的人，有次我也只是隨便說說自己常走到哪，吃到哪，她覺得很不錯，把我這句'名言'記了起來，每次她一個人吃東西時，就會寄照片給我看，說她也是走到哪，吃到哪了XD 哈哈~ 竟然有人覺得這種生活態度不錯？偶爾跟自己相處是需要的！

我朋友的妹妹是一個超級獨立的女生。我每次問她，她年級這麼輕，幹嘛像個孤獨老人家？ （咦，我不是一樣嗎？ 哈哈~ 只是我自認每年25歲的）。她說覺得自己做事情比較快，想到就去做。她也常常一人吃東西。有一次她獨自吃午餐時，旁邊的阿姨過來跟他說，妹妹，以後不要一個人吃午餐。哈哈哈~

對啦，在這裡，一個人（尤其女生）吃東西，旁人真的會用憐憫的眼神看你。或許他們覺得這女生好可憐，都沒有朋友，也沒有另一半。在這裡很多女生沒有一個人吃飯的不習慣吧~  不晓得~ 

其實我只是懶。因為約人有點麻煩。大家要花點時間溝通，喬東喬西。我知道這樣不好，也怕到時我往生時，沒朋友來給我送別。所以有時我還是會願意花點時間跟人溝通，喬東喬西。我真的可以獨處，也可以過團體生活， 很有彈性的 哈哈~

下次如果你看到我一個人，請不用可憐我，因為..... 我只是懒的溝通，喬東喬西 :P 

Foreigner again haha

I often say, I get mistaken as foreigner in my hometown. 

And when I'm abroad, people think I'm from China, Taiwan, Japan, Korea, Hong Kong. When I'm in China, the locals think I am from the North because girls in the North are tall. 

OK, it must be my look then. 

Due to Covid 19 outbreak, we need to wear masks when we are outside.  One Sunday morning, my mum said she wanted to eat kolomee. So being a filial daughter, i drove out and found a stall selling kolomee. With my mask on, I told the boss "boss, dabao two noodles" （老板，打包两包面）, to which he replied or should i say, asked,  "You are not local?" ( 你不是本地人吗？)  He didn't even look up! 

I told him i'm local leh. He said my accent is different so he thinks I'm not local. OH..... so it's not only my look that makes people think i'm a foreigner, but also my accent? Umm.. oh.. ok... doesn't matter. I'm used to it liao hahaha

see see, "liao" is very local right? 

How i boost my IQ level

My sister who lives overseas wanted to transfer some payment to a local travel agent last week. She couldn't understand our online banking system and called me to help. 

I had to log in my own account, video called her to guide her, step by step on how things work. After sometime, she finally made the transfer online *hooray* In her opinion, the online banking system here is too complicated.  She said one needs to have an IQ of 200 to understand and operate it. Hahaha... 

Although I have an IQ of 200 *ahem*,  I sometimes still struggle to work things out... 

You see, i received 4 tokens and am supposed to activate them. Unfortunately, after sometime, one of my tokens is locked and two of my user accounts are blocked. In order to unblock, i need to unlock first. The logic is simple but the journey isn't~ 

Last week, I went to the bank personally thinking that it would be faster to solve this mystery face to face with the bank personnel. Yes, it was fast because within one minute, the lady 'solved' her report by asking me to call the customer service... 

To date, i have called the customer service 4 times. Haha, i wonder if my number and name is already on the frequent call list :P

The first agent managed to teach me how to unblock but i still couldn't unlock. She asked me to follow the instructions on the booklet to unlock. If i am still locked, to call the customer service again. 

That sounds easy, however,  when i duly followed and received the passcode through the SMS and happily keyed in, again, i received the error message @.@

So i called the customer service again, explaining to this person what my problem was and what the previous customer service agent taught me and now am still stuck. She said to me, that i am supposed to key in the passcode on the token, not on the login screen in the PC. And she will reset again and reminded that to follow the steps correctly. OK, i wasn't told earlier :(

Anyway, after 4 calls and some jigsaw puzzle pieces put together by me, i managed to solve the problem. I think from now on, i could confidently say that my IQ is 400! haha

Although it's complicated, i should be happy to know that the online system is secure and that my money will be save and sound... 

I guess, there are more steps to follow in order to enjoy a peace of mind with a more secured system. Oh well, pros and cons....  that's the way life is.  

貓言貓語

我家的貓，從幾天后才回家吃飯睡覺進階到失踪整整幾個星期都不回家。我媽說，他跟母貓同居去了。真是潑出去的水呀！人家養青蛙，至少偶爾會寄 postcard照片回家，我的這隻貓，舍都沒有。真是的~

2018年的最後一天，也不見他回家吃團圓飯。 2019年的第一天，也不見貓咪的踪影。倒是泰哥最乖，每天看見我們都搖著尾巴，乖乖在家看門。還是他最忠心！

Jane還說好久好久沒看到貓咪了。 1號晚上要送Jane去機場時，失踪的貓突然跑回家！原本應該生氣他的，但看到他可愛的模樣，唉，又心軟了。

要好好跟他學習這一點 哈哈

昨天開手機，竟然收到我貓給我的話。

我不知道他憑什麼給我勸告！哈哈哈哈

真相大白！

今早，陪媽媽吃早餐。

剛要外出時，媽媽突然發現他的花兒‘凸盧姑’（光頭）了。

問：唉呀! 是不是你把我的花棌了？
我：沒有呀 *冤枉*

雖然我到處棌花草，但也絕對用最溫和不傷害的方式進行呀。

四個小時後，我們找到真正的兇手！

就是他！

He did it!

看他吃的肥肥的呀！胃口好大！

我说的不一样~

那天無意中看到台灣的節目, 一樣是中文怎麼不一樣?!

內容笑死我了，什麼‘水草’，‘割他’確實是我們常會說的。真的讓我想起我和Jane在台灣鬧得笑話。我想台灣朋友們跟我們談話，很多時候是有聽沒懂吧？ *流汗*

有位台灣朋友說，有次一位新加坡的老闆到台灣出差。眼看開會時間快到了但還不見人影，就打了通電話給他問他還要多久才抵達。新加坡老闆說‘多三個字’。朋友聽不懂就再問，那是多久呢？他又說‘給我多三個字。多三個字我就到了‘。朋友還是不懂意思，忍不住問道“請問…… 到底是哪三個字呀？“。我聽了笑到淚飆出來。我們的一個字等於5分鐘，所以三個字就是15分鐘。哈哈哈~ 我的天兒呀，為何我們會這麼說？

我們的語言太多，把我們搞得很雜。我在外國讀書時，特別選了一科‘華語’，因為我以為應該很容易，結果一點都不簡單！我搞不懂中國的朝代歷史但對共產黨的歷史倒有點知識。話說有次老師要我們寫中文作文，文章發回來時，香港台灣大陸同學們寫的頂瓜瓜 （哈哈，这个是广东话直接翻中文的吧？），我的卻很多紅色圈圈。因老師看不懂什麼是‘巴剎’。哈哈，我怎麼忘了這是馬來文翻出來的’中文字‘呀？

我有時會客家話直翻中文。有次我跟朋友說我想吃“豆殼”。朋友問我那是什麼東西。我說就豆殼呀，青色長長的那種。他笑死了，跟我說那叫‘長豆‘。噢，對厚，我怎麼忘了那是客家話？

有次我聽一位老伯伯跟他老婆說，你在這裡等我，我去把車‘駛‘過來。哈哈，那是客家話直翻中文。

我常常也用詞不當。其實真的是語言錯亂。我們客家話常說去‘喝水‘，意思是’喝茶/咖啡‘，聊天。有次我跟台灣朋友說我和朋友去喝水，他問我為何要到咖啡廳喝水，我愣了一下才回說，我在喝饮料啦~

發音不當也惹來了很多笑話。有次我想說‘ 僅供參考‘。但一時忘了這正式的說法，我說了’只供參考‘。台灣朋友頭上冒很多問號，問我為什麼‘子宮’要參考~

哎，我的笑話太多了。有時也真的為難了聽我說話的台灣大陸朋友們。不過幸好他們覺得我們很酷，竟懂這麼多語言。呵呵，我雖然全部語言都是‘有限公司’（不精通）但至少能和不同的人們溝通，自覺也很不錯啦，哈哈~

有時我覺得我們真的很懶。說話句子常常不完整，讓人家容易誤解。像之前去泳池，不小心踢到東西，結果腳趾 o che ~ 幾個星期後腳趾甲竟然掉了。但因為自己沒好好照顧傷口，結果腳趾發炎了。又腫又癢又紅。在公司穿了人字拖走動，同事問我腳怎麼了。我說因為我腳趾掉了所以不能穿包鞋。我這句話造成了轟動。大家開始很驚訝，問我到底什麼事情讓我腳趾掉了。原來我少說一個字讓大家誤會了，不好意思。是腳趾甲掉了啦~

哈哈，語言障礙有藥可救嗎？

The hidden message

Some say, the opposite attracts. I think otherwise though. Just think of it this way, if you can't stand a certain things, how would it be possible for u to form a good relationship with people who possess those things? Unless it's unconditional love hahahaha.. like how i love Jane :P

In my view, people form friendship with those who hold the same values as them. Otherwise, u are into topic A and he/she is into topic B, i don't know how long this kind of friendship would last haha

In my world, i don't like to regards problems as problems. I don't like to sit there and whine about how unfair life is because we are the writers of our own destiny. You choose what kind of a person you want to be. You choose how you want to react to situations. There is no easy way but when there is a will, there is a way.  To me, nothing is good or bad. It's us, who put a tag on what we like and don't like or what's good or bad. 

I used to get frustrated when certain things turned out differently when I'd already made perfect plans. Then i realised, that's the way things are, change is constant. I either move with change or be left behind. I still do my best to prevent things from happening, but if it still turns out differently, i just gotta accept it and see how else i could improve. And who knows, the unexpected change might turn out to be a good thing! 

I have been added to many chat groups - Buddhism class group, medical volunteer group,  charity org group,  real estate motivating group.... The one thing these groups have in common is, they all want to make a difference to the society.

One day, i had nothing to do and viewed the group of people in one of the groups (haha, how meaningful :P). Wow, everyone has very positive quotes as their introduction. I guess the quotes must be what they want to achieve in the future or have achieved or realised. 

When i got to the bottom of the list, i laughed so hard XD

If these people ever go through the list like i did, i wonder what they think of me when they see the chicken! haha..

Actually, the chicken is not just a random icon i put. It has a positive energy meaning. U have to read the hidden message!

So i did a little survey by asking a few friends what they think the icon implies.

A friend said, "don't know. You are craving for chicken rice?" (i do like to eat chicken rice but that's not what it means haha)

Another said, is that your year of birth? (oh, why not? haha)

My colleague gave the most hilarious reply

She said, "it's very obvious! I think u support 那只鸡" (@.@)

haha, ok, looks like great minds aren't easy to find hehe...

That chicken, popping out from the egg means 重生 (Rebirth) --> when we are presented with new things which we have no idea how to handle, do not fear or run away. Find ways to overcome them. Once u crossover, you are no longer the person you were yesterday because you have gained one more strength, you are one step better.

That chicken popping out from its egg also means stepping out from your comfort zone. Do not let fears stop you from chasing after your dreams. We only live once. If you never never try, you will never never know your capabilities.

That chicken popping out from the egg also means, growing up/ being strong because if it breaks from the outside, it means you let yourself be beaten by the external forces, however if it breaks from the inside, it means that you have taken actions to overcome your shortcomings ( 从外打破是压力，从内打破是成长).

See? i do not even need any words to express my positive thoughts! Awesome right?

My one little chicken icon is FULL of Wisdom!

This is truly a picture is worth ten thousand words! :P

There it goes again...

I am thinking of creating a new label called "Grab funny moments" haha..

Today, i took a grab car to the Eye Specialist Centre as my mum was already there and i worried her vision would be blurred after the eye drops and wouldn't be able to drive home.

In the car, the driver asked me if i am working at the Eye Specialist Centre.

I don't really like to reveal too much as I do not know if this person, you know, is being friendly or has other motives... Haha, sorry, i know we have new government, new hope, new ways of living and this person is just trying to be nice, hoping to get a rating of 5 from me... But, i shouldn't let down my guard down still, right? 

So i simply replied "No".

After a few minutes, he asked again, "you are there to see patients?"

Errrr... No... 

Last time i took a grab car from a medical centre and the driver insisted i must be a doctor. This time, another driver thinks i'm an eye specialist or nurse? haha interesting...

Ok, i think i look intelligent (AND i am although a bit clumsy :P) and it kinda makes me feel that, i should've studied to become a doctor instead.

Too bad, my talents and intelligence aren't for that field T___T

I only get to look like a doctor but actually not a doctor .. but it's cool anyway haha.. 

Well, not only am i mistakenly as a foreigner in my own hometown, but also a profession which I am not familiar with :P Are u envious of my multiple identities? hahahaha

Spotted! hehe

There is a new mall in town. 

I thought I would only visit after 3 months of its opening to avoid crowds, instead Christine and I visited a day before its opening day :P

Call us kia su haha

Actually, we were having lunch nearby (what a big mistake) and we thought since we had spent time waiting in the traffic jam, we might as well make this trip worthwhile by joining the crowds. Is that logic logical? haha...

We were walking to the car park. Along the way, I saw new trees being planted. Nice, because in a blink of an eye, these trees will grow into big, masculine trees which provide shades to the pedestrians. 

Just as i was in my own thoughts, something caught my attention and i just had to stop and take this picture to show you guys :P

Look, the trees planted by 'normal' people are growing well except for the tree planted by the Senior Assistant Director of Forest Department >.<

Oooppps

Can u spot the dead tree? hehe

My new occupation haha...

I took grab car at  the medical centre just now because i reckoned it would be easier for the driver to locate me if I am at a landmark.

When i got in, the driver asked me if I'm a doctor. 

I said nope. 

He asked me what I do.

I replied that I'm doing everything from low to high and left to right. I wasn't kidding. It's exactly what i do :P

He turned back and looked at me and said, "Nah, it can't be. You look like a doctor".

I wish I have such talent! haha.. I said really, am not. I just wait for car here actually... 

Then he started to chat with me, about health issues which are now affecting younger people, the high medical costs and insurance nowadays and how he had a heart surgery and then being told actually his heart is OK (Oh my, he went thru unnecessary pain!).....

He then turned around and said again,  I think you are a doctor.

@.@

I said nooooo... seriously! 

He 不死心 and continued to say, then u must be some kind of doctor's assistant?

NOOoooooooooooo.... 😅😅😅

Haha, which part of no doesn't he get it? haha... 

I'm telling the truth and yet he doesn't believe me 😆

OK la, it's an honoured to be regarded as a doctor. If he must insist, I will just accept with humble heart. Actually, u could say I am a 江湖医生 (self-taught, fake doctor) 😆 

There, i hope that makes him happy! haha...😂 

New Device for Home

OK, i haven't mentioned about the new device which we installed last November. 

I wanna wait and see if this device works as intended.... now that it has been almost half a year, i think i can comment on the effectiveness now.

*******

My home is infested with rats.

It has always been a problem because our house is surrounded by bushes and there is an abandoned house behind us where the rats hide. Of coz, the fact that there is plenty of food in my mum's kitchen too... it's like the rats can come for buffet anytime @.@

Recently, it becomes a serious problem when the rats multiply and create a colony within our house.

Many times, we see them breezily walked past. Sometimes we catch them eating an unopened packet of food in the kitchen... Something absurd happened one night. I was sitting in my room engaging myself in the IT world, then i saw in the corner of my eyes that "something" was moving into my room from outside. I looked and gosh, it was a rat! 

The rats are daring. They aren't afraid of anyone or anything.

We caught the rats using the cage a few times. And some died from the rat poison. But the problem did not get better.

One time, to prevent the rats from getting to precious food which i brought back from overseas, I kept them in hard casing luggage thinking it would be safe until one fine day, i found out that, the luggage that looked 'untouched' had actually been bitten through by the rats! just to reach the packets of dried organic noodles inside!

Look what they have done to my trusted friend!!

Arrrgghhhh

OMG, they are insane!! They are dangerous! They are out of control!

I bought a device which was said to produce ear-piercing sound that irritates rats and had them turned on 24 hours a day for about 2 years. As you can see, they don't work at all. Crap, money down the drain...

So after many many rounds of negotiations with my parents, one day, i came home to find a new device.

It's a ...

Blue-eyed kitten!

Ok, don't be fooled by his cuteness 

He was angry when my mum first brought him in. nobody could touch him. Even feeding him food offended him haha... 

Then after a few days of us trying to make friends with him, he relented. 

We kept him inside the house. The next day, we found a dead rat in the living room. Then we found dead little snakes, cockroaches, lizards... my parents were proud of him.  But we also found torn toilet paper, broken vase and that he actually naps on my cleaned clothes!!!

oh well, i guess nothing is perfect. This device functions but at the same time, we need to pay the price to keep him entertained.

As our cat grows bigger, he starts to treat home as a hotel. He disappears and only comes home during meal times when he will meow non-stop. After meal, he disappears again. He doesn't hunt for anything anymore and my parents start to complain that he is a useless cat.

haha, oh well, he deserves to be scolded. Just look at him... we find him sleeping most of the time or just lying around doing nothing haha...

Just look at all his different poses!

The cat is now my responsibility even technically, it's my mum who brought him home. As i said before, i'm a responsible person. Since the cat is now one of the family members, I have to make sure he becomes a better cat. So lately, i nag at him that he better starts catching some rats to prove to my parents that he is not some 'qi liao bi' (wasting food) member. 

Last weekend, i found some dead lizards on the floor. OK, no rats yet but at least he did SOMETHING. Yesterday, when i was eating at the dinner table, i saw something moving rapidly at the door. I looked closely and oh my gosh, my cat had a big black bird in his mouth. It was still alive and struggling!!

The cat with the bird bigger than him came inside the house and tried to go upstairs. I screamed at the cat and the next thing i saw, the bird escaped from his mouth and ran frantically to kitchen and then out the window and my cat was chasing after it, jumping from the floor to the counter top and then out the window.. it looks just like the scene in Jacky Chan's movie. 

It was crazy! When my cat returned from the bush, I caught him and said, PLEASE CATCH RATS, not birds. Zzzzz... 

Haiiii.... the rats are still partying loudly at the ceiling. I wonder when my cat will terminate them all. 

My new addiction

Ever since i had this canned coffee in KL in 2016, i couldn't have enough...

So far the best canned kopi in my opinion

Oh gosh! So I managed to get rid of my unhealthy habit of taking too much teh c but it was replaced by having too much kopi C. Recently, I started to get addicted to this! I drink it at every chance i have. And i crave for it when I know i shouldn't be  ╮(╯_╰)╭     

And the absurd thing is, I even manage to influence the people around me to start taking it! My colleague called me just now to ask me the name of the coffee i like. Another friend whatsapp-ed me the picture of the coffee to confirm if it's the one i like haha...

You know what? I think Wonda should really pay me a commission for such wonda-ful advertisement!!

Productive Jenn

I just completed 3 reports in 2.5 hour.  yea, i'm such a efficient person!

My boss told me only at 10.30am this morning that he needed them by today and I had a meeting at 1pm later! @.@

I can be very efficient and productive when i wanted to .... actually, when i am forced to >.<

I always feel that, I'm the person I am today because of the training i got from my parents and all my bosses. How else to manage their spontaneity?

I remembered, when GST was first implemented in 2015, my company put me in charge of implementing it as well as ensuring smooth transition for our group of companies. I was sent to KL and in the car with the area manager, i asked her how many KL colleagues had attended the GST courses. To my surprise, none!

As soon as i reached our office (5-10 minutes before class began), I immediately made changes to my slides to include all the basics to be shared in the briefing later. My other colleague who accompanied me to KL was so impressed at my ability to adapt to changes that she said she officially regarded me as her idol ahahahaha...

Frankly speaking, i didn't think I'm good at anything. I merely do what I have to do. I get embarrassed when people praise me because deep in my heart, I feel that the things i did were not perfectly done and wished I could've done better.

Hmmm... I think I am self-abusive.....

Scary or not?

Received two photos in one of my whatsapp group chats at around 10pm last night.

I almost dropped from my chair when i saw them. 

At first glance, i thought my friend had forwarded photos from some Chinese/ Japanese horror movies, trying to scare us at this hour of the night.

Then I looked closely again, ahahahaha, it was my friend who tried on her newly bought dress and nicely showed us the outcome... Oh...

Sorry friend. It was a genuine misunderstanding. No offence...

one of the photos she sent

No editing

Mistaken again

I was at one electrical shop one day, checking out stove and range hood for our new little place.

For some reason, no sales person came to sell me anything. Hmmm, am i too fierce looking? haha.. Many years ago, one of my ex-colleagues told me, the first time she saw me, she didn't dare to talk to me at first because i looked '杀' (i guess it means 'cool' in English :P). But it turns out that, I'm such a friendly and full of love person (ahem, that's the way she put it, I swear).

I waved at one of the sales ladies to come over as i needed someone to summarise for me all the different functions that each stove and hood have. 

Two sales persons then came to help. One of them said "Just now when u walked in, everyone screamed and said there is a Korean customer". Oh, so that's the reason none of them came to offer help? Haha, funny...

I wasn't surprised by their assumption because I have always been mistaken as a foreigner in my own town haha.. but I do hope that i look like Korean girl who has undergone 'successful cosmetic surgery" like those you see in Korean series hehe...And it's cool that sometimes I am a Chinese from Mainland China, sometimes I am a Korean, Sometimes I'm Japanese, Sometimes i am Taiwanese, sometimes I am from Hong Kong, sometimes I am ABC.... haha, it's so wonderful that I have so many identities! haha...

As we were going through the different specs of the stoves and range hoods, one of them suddenly said, "Ms, your nose is very beautiful". Errrr... this caught me by surprise. Not knowing what to say, i touched my nose and jokingly said "oh, this is fake" haha...

Just for your information, my nose is as real as a pearl :P

In my own world haha

Can't be bothered anymore

I used to make new year resolutions in the past.
Then one year i realised that there is no point in making any because my new year resolution is always "renewing" the old ones >_<

Saw a phrase on FB yesterday and i couldn't agree more!

"MY GOAL FOR 2018
is to accomplish the goals of 2017
... Which i should have done in 2016
... Because I promised them in 2015
... And planned them in 2014."

Haha, it's exactly what i was doing!
Except that, the goals were planned in 2003 <(*n*)>

Is my logic logical?

I have a new fear which I have not overcome.

I think this will take time and effort.

I'm worried that family and friends get the wrong idea that my motive is to make money from them so i tried to be low profile. 

There is nothing wrong for them to have such thoughts. Because they may have been scared by people whose motives are, well, simply to make money from them and run away. 

I had that kind of experience too. For example, that insurance that I bought. Before I committed myself, she was sOOo friendly and helpful until I signed that paper. 

And that direct sales membership which i signed up because i wanted to learn how to have better health etc. As soon as i committed, my previous upline disappeared. And it was a miracle is that I actually obediently purchased health products for 3 years without supervision. 

Despite the above, I don't close my hearts. I don't know whether to call myself a fool or a kind hearted person  :P I just think that not everyone is like that. 不能一竹竿打翻一船人.I believe that there are good people out there who genuinely want to share good things with me. By giving them a chance, i also give myself an opportunity. Who knows, this might be the thing i need :) 

I've a friend who is doing part time direct selling. She shares information she learns during her classes, sends me pamphlets of monthly promotion, asks me to attend talks regarding health etc. She does the same for others. Then one day, a colleague told me that she feels that my friend just wants to make money out of her. I was stunned! I truly appreciate my friend's gesture because without doing anything, I got to enjoy the fruits of her hard work!. And I just think that it's appropriate that I pay for such "services " because how else would I find out about the good things if it weren't for her who has invested time, money and effort to discover and test them? And only by "paying" her, she would have an income to sustain her act.  And only by giving them a try would i know if the items are worthy of my money or not. 

Haha, i don't know. I have always been a weird one. I don't even know if my logics are logical to you or not haha...

What do u think?

Unique profile pictures

Before there were stickers for digital photos,  decorations (?) for pictures were created by one's powerful mind. 

Yeah, i gotta say, the pre-generation z people may seem less privilege without high tech gadgets but looking from another angle, their brains are efficiently and effectively utilised ;P

Jane bought these really nice handpainted paintings from a street artist near Musée d'Orsay and excitedly went home and wanted to make her very own unique FB profile picture with them. 

Unique i heard! Of course being a nice sister, i decided to lend her some helping hands. 

 Take 1

Take 2

I don't know why she didn't wanna use any of these as her FB profile picture. Esp this really cute one: 

The Best shot! haha