If you are looking hope and happiness, you are in the right page ^^
I was given a taste of happiness months ago.. Right away, i got addicted... I wanted more.. and when i got more, i wanted even more! Addictions is scary... once u are hooked, your desire becomes bigger, you become greedy, you find yourself never satisfy.. it's like a snowball... All you just want is MORE...
But for me, it's not like that.... Not anymore..... I used to get upset or sad when things don't go my way or as planned. It really drained me emotionally... I figured out *finally* that this is self-inflicted pain.. Why did I want to torture myself this way? Why did I wanna punish myself for something I've NO CONTROL over? It was crazy, right?! When things go bad, I've 2 choices ~ let myself being bothered and feel frustrated OR smile and start again... The latter is definitely a wise choice!
These days, I just go with the flow.... I haven't mastered this skill yet but I'm on that path... Life IS breezier this way... These days, I try to do everything with no expectation for returns... I finally realised that it's only when u do something without expected to be rewarded, both mentally and materially, you won't feel let down when things don't turn out the way you want or expect... What is more important is that you have learned something during the journey...
I know everyone of us wants hopes and happiness (I don't think there is anybody who wants to live in a dark, gloomy world), although hope and happiness are in your own hands but sometimes, we need a bit of help from others.... So i decided to plant a lot of hopes and happiness to cheer up those we come to my home...
For my friends who cannot make it to my place for hopes and happiness, let me bring them to you! How thoughtful am I hey? hahaha...
Lots of hopes & happiness
There are along my driveway!
Beautiful!
May your everyday be filled with happiness....
7 comments:
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是是...自己的快乐在自己的手中。你别让自己过的太痛苦喔... *熊抱抱*
nice...i love the yellow pedals :) so greenish and healthy too~~ yup, happiness is a choice
yeah, i agree with you, this is my belief as well, i belief there is a gain in every fail we made, like the master say 'face it, embrace it , let it go' .
my seeds of happiness and hope still yet to be planted. :p ... I know i know,dont scold me lah~
jane, maybe u could try to plant in sh too :P
wah lj, u plan to keep the seeds til becoming antiques ah? or u wanna pass them down to your children? haha...
i like what u said. there is definitely a lesson to be learned in everything that happens! ^^
So lj, u have learned that u have a pair of 'plant-killing' hands? hehehe...
The lesson learned, i will try to keep trying which plant is immune from my plant killing hand. mua ha ha! spring onion n cactus do very well u know?
oh good good, at least i know some things can survive even under hardship
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