Some say, the opposite attracts. I think otherwise though. Just think of it this way, if you can't stand a certain things, how would it be possible for u to form a good relationship with people who possess those things? Unless it's unconditional love hahahaha.. like how i love Jane :P
In my view, people form friendship with those who hold the same values as them. Otherwise, u are into topic A and he/she is into topic B, i don't know how long this kind of friendship would last haha
In my world, i don't like to regards problems as problems. I don't like to sit there and whine about how unfair life is because we are the writers of our own destiny. You choose what kind of a person you want to be. You choose how you want to react to situations. There is no easy way but when there is a will, there is a way. To me, nothing is good or bad. It's us, who put a tag on what we like and don't like or what's good or bad.
I used to get frustrated when certain things turned out differently when I'd already made perfect plans. Then i realised, that's the way things are, change is constant. I either move with change or be left behind. I still do my best to prevent things from happening, but if it still turns out differently, i just gotta accept it and see how else i could improve. And who knows, the unexpected change might turn out to be a good thing!
I have been added to many chat groups - Buddhism class group, medical volunteer group, charity org group, real estate motivating group.... The one thing these groups have in common is, they all want to make a difference to the society.
One day, i had nothing to do and viewed the group of people in one of the groups (haha, how meaningful :P). Wow, everyone has very positive quotes as their introduction. I guess the quotes must be what they want to achieve in the future or have achieved or realised.
When i got to the bottom of the list, i laughed so hard XD
If these people ever go through the list like i did, i wonder what they think of me when they see the chicken! haha..
Actually, the chicken is not just a random icon i put. It has a positive energy meaning. U have to read the hidden message!
So i did a little survey by asking a few friends what they think the icon implies.
A friend said, "don't know. You are craving for chicken rice?" (i do like to eat chicken rice but that's not what it means haha)
Another said, is that your year of birth? (oh, why not? haha)
My colleague gave the most hilarious reply
She said, "it's very obvious! I think u support 那只鸡" (@.@)
haha, ok, looks like great minds aren't easy to find hehe...
That chicken, popping out from the egg means 重生 (Rebirth) --> when we are presented with new things which we have no idea how to handle, do not fear or run away. Find ways to overcome them. Once u crossover, you are no longer the person you were yesterday because you have gained one more strength, you are one step better.
That chicken popping out from its egg also means stepping out from your comfort zone. Do not let fears stop you from chasing after your dreams. We only live once. If you never never try, you will never never know your capabilities.
That chicken popping out from the egg also means, growing up/ being strong because if it breaks from the outside, it means you let yourself be beaten by the external forces, however if it breaks from the inside, it means that you have taken actions to overcome your shortcomings ( 从外打破是压力，从内打破是成长).
See? i do not even need any words to express my positive thoughts! Awesome right?
My one little chicken icon is FULL of Wisdom!
This is truly a picture is worth ten thousand words! :P
