I have a new fear which I have not overcome.
I think this will take time and effort.
I'm worried that family and friends get the wrong idea that my motive is
to make money from them so i tried to be low profile.
There is nothing wrong for them to have such thoughts. Because they may
have been scared by people whose motives are, well, simply to make
money from them and run away.
I had that kind of experience too. For example, that insurance that I
bought. Before I committed myself, she was sOOo friendly and helpful
until I signed that paper.
And that direct sales membership which i signed up because i wanted to
learn how to have better health etc. As soon as i committed, my
previous upline disappeared. And it was a miracle is that I actually
obediently purchased health products for 3 years without supervision.
Despite the above, I don't close my hearts. I don't
know whether to call myself a fool or a kind hearted person :P I just
think that not everyone is like that. 不能一竹竿打翻一船人.I believe that there
are good people out there who genuinely want to share good things
with me. By giving them a chance, i also give myself an opportunity. Who knows, this might be the thing i need :)
I've a friend who is doing part time direct selling. She shares
information she learns during her classes, sends me pamphlets of
monthly promotion, asks me to attend talks regarding health etc. She
does the same for others. Then one day, a colleague told me that she
feels that my friend just wants to make money out of her. I was stunned! I truly appreciate my friend's gesture because without doing anything,
I got to enjoy the fruits of her hard work!. And I just think that it's
appropriate that I pay for such
"services " because how else would I find out about the good things if
it
weren't for her who has invested time, money and effort to
discover and test them? And only by "paying" her, she would have an income
to sustain her act. And only by giving them a try would i know if the items are worthy of my money or not.
Haha, i don't know. I have always been a weird one. I don't even know if my logics are logical to you or not haha...
What do u think?
2 comments:
oh well, there is no right or wrong in this because everyone thinks differently based on their experience lo.
your friend is a typically thought process because all they think is, people try to take advantage of them...not knowing they dont have to be taken advantaged of if they dont want to.
i only have this thoughts towards stranger because you dont know them and u want to be careful at first...with friends, my thought same as you lo... or else the world is full of cheaters liao...haha
maybe i'm strange too :p
I guess that is very common nowadays, everybody afraid of being taken advantage, it's a kind of self protection I guess, by rejecting, they save their worries for being cheated or used, but on the other hand, they also lose many opportunities, while you gals, have create a brand new world already.
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