貓言貓語

我家的貓，從幾天后才回家吃飯睡覺進階到失踪整整幾個星期都不回家。我媽說，他跟母貓同居去了。真是潑出去的水呀！人家養青蛙，至少偶爾會寄 postcard照片回家，我的這隻貓，舍都沒有。真是的~

2018年的最後一天，也不見他回家吃團圓飯。 2019年的第一天，也不見貓咪的踪影。倒是泰哥最乖，每天看見我們都搖著尾巴，乖乖在家看門。還是他最忠心！

Jane還說好久好久沒看到貓咪了。 1號晚上要送Jane去機場時，失踪的貓突然跑回家！原本應該生氣他的，但看到他可愛的模樣，唉，又心軟了。

要好好跟他學習這一點 哈哈

昨天開手機，竟然收到我貓給我的話。

我不知道他憑什麼給我勸告！哈哈哈哈

真相大白！

今早，陪媽媽吃早餐。

剛要外出時，媽媽突然發現他的花兒‘凸盧姑’（光頭）了。

問：唉呀! 是不是你把我的花棌了？
我：沒有呀 *冤枉*

雖然我到處棌花草，但也絕對用最溫和不傷害的方式進行呀。

四個小時後，我們找到真正的兇手！

就是他！

He did it!

看他吃的肥肥的呀！胃口好大！

13年 Goodbye

我以為我可以很瀟灑的轉身
還是忍不住紅了眼眶
畢竟這條路每天走
一走就走了13年

這條路有開心，有驚喜，有憤怒，有希望，有期待，有失望，有友情，有疲憊，有寬容，有壓力，有動力，有領悟....

不管如何它都曾经是我生命的一大部分。

今天告別13年的熟悉，心裡有點酸酸的

不捨的是這條路？

還是這家公司？

或是這崗位？

還是這13年來所建立的友情？

原來我在離別這條路還是不夠瀟灑

這條路、成了我的過去

這條路是我的故事

這條路成就了現在的我

我感恩在這條路上所遇到的每個人事物

我們再見～

#換個跑道#

Forgive and forget~

It's interesting how many things one can accumulate over the years.

This morning, i decided to do some spring cleaning on my laptop.

Everyday, i add in new things and none comes out because i think to myself, what if I need them one day? Of course most of the time, this day never comes. But i keep them anyway, just in case.  Oh well,  the files only take up virtual space, i thought I might as well leave them there, because re-building from scratch is a pain. Am I the only one feeling insecure? haha...

Today is a historical moment because it's time to delete.Yes, there comes a time when you are forced to do something and only then, u realise that, those things u think were important at that time, no longer seem important now.  

At a press of a 'delete' button, over 1,250 files in my dowloads folder, which i had accumulated for the past 5 years were gone in less than a minute. Looking at the speed, i suddenly thought, if we all could delete/ let go of our unhappy thoughts, memories and feelings at this speed, wouldn't we be happier? Wouldn't the world be more peaceful?   

Many times, we hold on to past events, be it happy or unhappy ones, be it hatred or love for many years. Good ones are like vitamins for our healthy, while the bad ones are slowly killing us but we refuse to admit them... We think, by doing so we are showing the other parties some 'colours' but in actual fact, we are punishing ourselves. 

Hmmmm... something to work on....

如果我们也能以这种速度忘了，原谅了，是否会过的更快乐？

你...盡了本分嗎?

最近有點忙。

說有點，其實是虛報 呵呵~
只能說，多希望一天有 48 個小時。
哈哈，我自虐狂的特性又來了 😆
沒法子，要做的事情太多了呀~

忙了許久的小空間，終於快好了！ *撒花*
這幾週，我家裡及工作室來來往往，東西扛上扛下，忙著打掃整理，連共用的樓梯都不放過。身上到處都是傷痕及淤青。東西一樣一樣的人力扛到3樓、雖然全身酸痛，汗水流了幾桶，但看著工作室漸漸成形，心裡倒是很感動及欣慰。這種感覺就像媽媽們懷了10個月的胎兒終於要出世的心情吧？緊張但又期待，害怕但又興奮、又感動.... 

心情複雜、百感交集~

曾經聽過很多人抱怨古晉很悶，沒有什麼特別的。哈哈，不瞞你說，我曾經也是其中一個抱怨者。

那時，我總覺得其它地方很有他國的特色，讓人想一直探索。比如去到法國，覺得那裡流露了一陣陣藝術浪漫的氣息。去到台灣，那裡有著人情味。踏到澳洲，那裡是陽剛運動的氣息。在布拉格，那裡流露著童話故事的浪漫。去到檳城，覺得那裡流露著文化藝術的氣息..... 那, 古晉呢？

有外国朋友說，古晉有著南洋懶洋洋的感覺。這....是好的印象嗎？哈哈
我不知道。但至少古晉是個樸實的地方。

我認為，一個地方的感覺是由大家一起營造出來的。如果你覺得古晉沒有故事，沒有文化，沒有感覺，那我們大家真的要自我審核了。
是否我們自己也沒有盡到自己的本分，讓古晉里里外外都美麗精彩呢？

很多朋友很努力的保護，宣傳這個美麗的地方。
也有人很努力的創造， 讓古晉跳出框框。
大家用的方式不一樣但都有著一樣的目標。
但大家的力量畢竟有限。

期許更多的人能看到，體會到，感激及珍惜这些在背後一直努力的人及意義。

期許更多人被感染，大家一起動起來讓古晉更有內涵~

分享我老爸昨天跟我說的一句話 -  不要問人家可以給你什麼。問自己你能為人家做些什麼。

我说的不一样~

那天無意中看到台灣的節目, 一樣是中文怎麼不一樣?!

內容笑死我了，什麼‘水草’，‘割他’確實是我們常會說的。真的讓我想起我和Jane在台灣鬧得笑話。我想台灣朋友們跟我們談話，很多時候是有聽沒懂吧？ *流汗*

有位台灣朋友說，有次一位新加坡的老闆到台灣出差。眼看開會時間快到了但還不見人影，就打了通電話給他問他還要多久才抵達。新加坡老闆說‘多三個字’。朋友聽不懂就再問，那是多久呢？他又說‘給我多三個字。多三個字我就到了‘。朋友還是不懂意思，忍不住問道“請問…… 到底是哪三個字呀？“。我聽了笑到淚飆出來。我們的一個字等於5分鐘，所以三個字就是15分鐘。哈哈哈~ 我的天兒呀，為何我們會這麼說？

我們的語言太多，把我們搞得很雜。我在外國讀書時，特別選了一科‘華語’，因為我以為應該很容易，結果一點都不簡單！我搞不懂中國的朝代歷史但對共產黨的歷史倒有點知識。話說有次老師要我們寫中文作文，文章發回來時，香港台灣大陸同學們寫的頂瓜瓜 （哈哈，这个是广东话直接翻中文的吧？），我的卻很多紅色圈圈。因老師看不懂什麼是‘巴剎’。哈哈，我怎麼忘了這是馬來文翻出來的’中文字‘呀？

我有時會客家話直翻中文。有次我跟朋友說我想吃“豆殼”。朋友問我那是什麼東西。我說就豆殼呀，青色長長的那種。他笑死了，跟我說那叫‘長豆‘。噢，對厚，我怎麼忘了那是客家話？

有次我聽一位老伯伯跟他老婆說，你在這裡等我，我去把車‘駛‘過來。哈哈，那是客家話直翻中文。

我常常也用詞不當。其實真的是語言錯亂。我們客家話常說去‘喝水‘，意思是’喝茶/咖啡‘，聊天。有次我跟台灣朋友說我和朋友去喝水，他問我為何要到咖啡廳喝水，我愣了一下才回說，我在喝饮料啦~

發音不當也惹來了很多笑話。有次我想說‘ 僅供參考‘。但一時忘了這正式的說法，我說了’只供參考‘。台灣朋友頭上冒很多問號，問我為什麼‘子宮’要參考~

哎，我的笑話太多了。有時也真的為難了聽我說話的台灣大陸朋友們。不過幸好他們覺得我們很酷，竟懂這麼多語言。呵呵，我雖然全部語言都是‘有限公司’（不精通）但至少能和不同的人們溝通，自覺也很不錯啦，哈哈~

有時我覺得我們真的很懶。說話句子常常不完整，讓人家容易誤解。像之前去泳池，不小心踢到東西，結果腳趾 o che ~ 幾個星期後腳趾甲竟然掉了。但因為自己沒好好照顧傷口，結果腳趾發炎了。又腫又癢又紅。在公司穿了人字拖走動，同事問我腳怎麼了。我說因為我腳趾掉了所以不能穿包鞋。我這句話造成了轟動。大家開始很驚訝，問我到底什麼事情讓我腳趾掉了。原來我少說一個字讓大家誤會了，不好意思。是腳趾甲掉了啦~

哈哈，語言障礙有藥可救嗎？

The hidden message

Some say, the opposite attracts. I think otherwise though. Just think of it this way, if you can't stand a certain things, how would it be possible for u to form a good relationship with people who possess those things? Unless it's unconditional love hahahaha.. like how i love Jane :P

In my view, people form friendship with those who hold the same values as them. Otherwise, u are into topic A and he/she is into topic B, i don't know how long this kind of friendship would last haha

In my world, i don't like to regards problems as problems. I don't like to sit there and whine about how unfair life is because we are the writers of our own destiny. You choose what kind of a person you want to be. You choose how you want to react to situations. There is no easy way but when there is a will, there is a way.  To me, nothing is good or bad. It's us, who put a tag on what we like and don't like or what's good or bad. 

I used to get frustrated when certain things turned out differently when I'd already made perfect plans. Then i realised, that's the way things are, change is constant. I either move with change or be left behind. I still do my best to prevent things from happening, but if it still turns out differently, i just gotta accept it and see how else i could improve. And who knows, the unexpected change might turn out to be a good thing! 

I have been added to many chat groups - Buddhism class group, medical volunteer group,  charity org group,  real estate motivating group.... The one thing these groups have in common is, they all want to make a difference to the society.

One day, i had nothing to do and viewed the group of people in one of the groups (haha, how meaningful :P). Wow, everyone has very positive quotes as their introduction. I guess the quotes must be what they want to achieve in the future or have achieved or realised. 

When i got to the bottom of the list, i laughed so hard XD

If these people ever go through the list like i did, i wonder what they think of me when they see the chicken! haha..

Actually, the chicken is not just a random icon i put. It has a positive energy meaning. U have to read the hidden message!

So i did a little survey by asking a few friends what they think the icon implies.

A friend said, "don't know. You are craving for chicken rice?" (i do like to eat chicken rice but that's not what it means haha)

Another said, is that your year of birth? (oh, why not? haha)

My colleague gave the most hilarious reply

She said, "it's very obvious! I think u support 那只鸡" (@.@)

haha, ok, looks like great minds aren't easy to find hehe...

That chicken, popping out from the egg means 重生 (Rebirth) --> when we are presented with new things which we have no idea how to handle, do not fear or run away. Find ways to overcome them. Once u crossover, you are no longer the person you were yesterday because you have gained one more strength, you are one step better.

That chicken popping out from its egg also means stepping out from your comfort zone. Do not let fears stop you from chasing after your dreams. We only live once. If you never never try, you will never never know your capabilities.

That chicken popping out from the egg also means, growing up/ being strong because if it breaks from the outside, it means you let yourself be beaten by the external forces, however if it breaks from the inside, it means that you have taken actions to overcome your shortcomings ( 从外打破是压力，从内打破是成长).

See? i do not even need any words to express my positive thoughts! Awesome right?

My one little chicken icon is FULL of Wisdom!

This is truly a picture is worth ten thousand words! :P